Often you will find that a parent with special needs child will have to tackle fine motor skills on and off. Well, it does not really matter much in the array of issues a parent is firefighting during the initial years.
Eventually, as you are inching towards school readiness, this skill holds your child down in ways that you did not anticipate. Ever heard that a child is cognitively ahead however, handwriting holding him/her down in a way that makes them repeat the tracing, legibility goals for a long time! Sometimes to the extent of getting aversive/mislabeled!
Well, I may have something to offer from my personal experience. As a mother to a hyperlexic kid with severe fine motor delays, I found my kid stuck with the “fist” grip for long, like really long. Cutting, gluing, scissor skills were significantly impacted.
After a year or two into intense OT therapies, I learned in my own time researching that fine motor skills are intensely dependent on gross motor skills. This simply means focus on gross motor skills to significantly improve fine motor grip. I then changed the strategy of his therapy goals to include more of balance, physical activity goals. It seemed to make a difference. However, I kept consistently researching tools/aids to support the fine motor. I stumbled on some products that helped make a further difference. I know many of you may use short crayons, fat pencils and this post is not about that.
Heard of wiki stix, please give it a try! This relatively simple product did wonders for my son’s fine motor skills.
It helps improve visual boundaries which is a pivotal step in progress. My son progressed within a couple of weeks versus 2 years of doing the specialized therapies with mediocre results. Check out some fine motor support tools well under $10 below, worth a try, you will not regret.
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My son made great strides in visual boundaries within weeks of wiki support.
Spring scissors- They have been the single most tool to help him deal with his anxiety around scissors.
He went from not independently picking scissors to snipping bits of paper within months. The scissor has a spring that helps the hand movements, such that the child does not need to exert in opening the scissor! Helps like anything.
Special assist scissor – Check them on AMZ here
Specialized orthopedic pencil: This one is used in adults after therapy.
Gluing skills: Use colored glue sticks. More often than not a kid with sensory issues may not have any idea of the activity of gluing and where it spreads on paper. This one helps set the expectation, visually. One such glue that has bulk discounts randomly – check it out here
Be patient and believe that it will come along, fail fast, and don’t stop experimenting on new ideas.
If you are up for something slightly above $10 then consider a can of pinch me therapy dough(3 oz for about $15).
This is not your scented playdoh, it is quite different with supple consistency. I must tell you that the scent of this dough can be felt across the room when your child or someone is using it. I used the Zen and Spa scents and, the scent stayed for hours after the dough was put away. This is probably why it earns its name as a calming scent that persists.
Secondly, the dough consistency is soft and supple, non-sticky delivering quite the pinch that you will get addicted to. Gentle pressure, light strokes, and relaxing scents could keep you kneading. The dough has not gotten flaky, does not dry out, and pretty much stays the same once tucked away, ready for future uses. If your kid is a sensory seeker, please do try this! It’s a great product to satisfy their olfactory sensory needs and redirect them appropriately. In our personal experience, this nontoxic scented dough has helped my kid with transitions.
I would recommend pinch me dough if you are seeking relief naturally from difficult transitions, adding it as a fine motor activity that also helps with their sensory needs. Whether you are stressed, struggling to focus, bored this is exceptionally helpful.
Check it out here at AMZ.